Love, translated.

Relatra helps difficult conversations feel easier.

Use solo, with a partner, or while dating.

When love feels lost in translation, Relatra helps you understand what they mean and translates what you feel into words your partner can truly hear — so you both feel seen, safe, and understood.

Relatra is a web-based relationship translator app that helps partners understand each other without judgment, pressure, blame or misunderstanding.


Zero drama. Just clarity.

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How Relatra Works

Get clarity before you respond
Relatra helps partners slow down, reflect and translate what each person is trying to say into language
and communication style the other can hear with more clarity.

You share what's actually true for you
Honest. Messy. Emotional. Calm. Frustrated. Unsure.
Whatever is real — without worrying how it will land.

Relatra helps to translate your meaning
…into a calm, compassionate message your partner can receive.

You receive your partner’s meaning, not their triggers
You get the emotional truth behind their words — not the heat, just the heart.

Relatra helps you settle and clarify
Relatra stays with you as long as you need, helping you slow things down, make sense of what you’re feeling, and find the meaning beneath the reaction — until things feel calmer again.

Reconnect when you're ready
Relatra supports each partner until they each feel ready for more grounded communication — and encourages reconnecting when all partners feel ready to communicate.

Each partner receives support to learn and grow
Relatra is designed to support  partners to become more skilled at relating in real life.

Each partner gets a private link
No accounts to remember. No logins. Just a secure, personal space to speak freely.


🛡️ Your chats with Relatra remain private.
🛡️ Only Relatra sees both sides.
🛡️ Each person receives only the translated message — tailored to how they communicate and understand best.


Zero drama. Just clarity.

Features

Clarity for every conversation

Private, secure spaces

Each person gets a confidential link to share thoughts and feelings. No accounts or shared inboxes—just a direct, private space for expression.

Communication Support

Relatra understands common communication patterns and attachment styles, translating emotional meaning into clearer language so partners can feel heard while easing tension.

Flexible for any relationship

Use solo for self-reflection, with a partner, or in multi-person relationships. Choose the plan that fits your needs—no pressure, no assumptions.

Calm, neutral bridge

Relatra doesn’t replace human connection. It creates space for understanding, making repair and growth possible on your terms.

Translate emotions. Bridge understanding.

Relatra helps you express yourself in a way that lets your partner receive your true meaning — she helps each person understand the other more clearly, creating space for honest, grounded connection

Private spaces. Honest expression.

Each person gets a secure, personal link. Share your thoughts safely—no one sees your words but you and your chosen partner(s).
No other humans read your chats by default — not even us.
*see Privacy Policy

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Connection, not correction.

Relatra creates a neutral bridge for communication with no blame, no judgement, just support and clarity—so you can move forward with confidence, together or solo.

Relatra Overview

What Relatra Does

  • Reduces Empotional Escalation
    Designed to reduce miscommunication and help meaning land more gently.

  • Understanding of Communication Patterns
    Relatra adapts to different communication and attachment styles and emotional needs without labeling.

  • Support of Autonomy
    No pressure to respond, fix, or resolve on anyone else’s timeline.

  • Reconnection When Partners Are Ready
    Relatra supports reflection and regulation, helping people return to conversation when each feels ready.

  • Safety-Awareness by Design
    If conversations suggest distress or self-harm, Relatra gently encourages appropriate support resources.

  • Private, Secure Link For Each Person
    Each user shares privately with Relatra — not in a shared chat.

  • Privacy Protection
    No data shared with third parties. Your conversations remain private and are not sold or shared.

  • Simple, Modern Web Experience
    Accessible through a secure browser —
    no app required at launch.


Who Relatra is for

Relatra helps:

  • Compatible Couples who are missing each other in communication find their way back to clarity and connection
  • Incompatible Couples to recognize unhealthy dynamics sooner, with less confusion and emotional harm
  • Partners Ready to Separate in a more clean, calm and respectful way
  • People in Early Dating to recognize compatibility or misalignment before deeper attachment forms
  • Partners with Different Attachment Styles to better understand what the other actually needs —
    even when their communication styles are very different
  • Co-Parents or Ex-Partners to help minimize emotional conflict and create a more emotionally stable environment for children.
  • Family Members who have difficulty seeing eye-to-eye
  • Coaches and Therapists who work with people struggling in relationships, communication and attachment styles.

Relatra doesn’t tell you what to do with your relationship.

It helps you see it more clearly —
so you can move forward from a grounded place.



Frequently asked questions

Answers for curious minds

Frequently asked Questions about how the  Relatra  
relationship translator works, privacy, and what to expect.

How does the translation work?

Relatra's private AI analyzes your written input and translates emotional meaning into language that is easier for another person to understand. Each user’s space is private, and translations are generated only when you choose to share.

Is my information private and secure?

Yes. Messages are processed automatically by Relatra’s private AI to support reflection and translation. No humans read or monitor your conversations, and your information is not sold or shared. See Privacy Policy for details.

Can I use this alone?

Absolutely. You can use the platform solo to process your thoughts, reflect, or prepare communication—even if your partner isn’t participating yet. Relatra can help you slow down and reflect on what someone else's words may mean, and help you prepare for how you'd like to repsond.

What relationship types are supported?

Relatra supports many types of relationships — including romantic partnerships, polyamorous relationships, co-parenting dynamics, and family relationships. It can be used solo or together, by individuals, couples, or small groups (up to four people).

When will access be available?

Relatra is launching soon. Join the waitlist to be notified when you can try the preview or subscribe to a plan.

Is there a cost?

Relatra will offer both free preview access and paid plans after launch. It's completly free to join the waitlist for early access.

Will Relatra do all the communication to my partner for me?

No. Relatra doesn’t replace direct communication. It helps you slow down, clarify what you’re trying to express, and understand what’s being said—so conversations can happen more calmly and clearly over time. Relatra is designed to help users learn how to communicate more clearly and calmly over time on their own.

Can I use this with a family member?

Yes. Relatra can support communication with family members when conversations feel tense, confusing, or hard to navigate—especially when different communication styles or long-standing patterns are involved

Is Relatra a replacement for therapy?

No. Relatra is designed to support reflection, regulation, and clearer communication. It doesn’t replace therapy, counseling, or crisis support — and it works best alongside real human connection and care.

Does Relatra use attachment theory?

Relatra is designed with an understanding of common attachment and communication patterns, including anxious, avoidant, secure, and mixed dynamics. Rather than labeling or diagnosing, Relatra focuses on translating communication in ways that imporove understanding and reduce defensiveness.

Can attachment coaches use Relatra with clients?

Relatra can be used as a supportive tool alongside coaching, reflection, or personal growth work. It is not a replacement for professional guidance, but some coaches may choose to recommend it as a way for clients to practice calmer communication between sessions.

Is there an affiliate or referral program?

Not yet. Relatra is still in its early stages. An affiliate or referral program for coaches, educators, and practitioners is planned for the future, once the product is live and tested.

If you’re interested in partnering or being notified when this becomes available, you’re welcome to join the affiliate interest list here.

Bridge the gap. Understand more.

AI-powered translation for clearer connection.
Relatra is currently in private beta. Early subscribers help shape the  experience.



Our Mission

Relatra helps people slow down, regulate, and feel heard—so conversations become calmer and real connection can happen on their own terms.

Our Vision
Relatra supports a future where difficult conversations create less emotional strain — helping adults relate with more steadiness, and children grow up in calmer relational environments.

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